⚓: bisexual phobia?

sinnylove:

sapphicseven:

sinnylove:

sapphicseven:

im really sick of people’s judgmental attitude toward bisexual individuals.

im especially disappointing in the gay community; you should be sincerely ashamed if youve done this-

1) said bisexual people are “easier”

2) falsified the sexuality of a bisexuals, said its not real or theyre lying….

Your grammar and spelling is disappointing. Now I don’t deny that there bisexuals. Absolutely not. I completely believe there are. But just like in every community there are things that are stereotypical that give bad names to all communities that we all place on each other. Rather than be bitches and use these stereotypes and accusations and then blame other people for said stereotypes, let’s try being civil and stop using stereotypes all together. There is nothing I loathe more than people starting drama with other people. People shouldn’t go out of their ways to be offended. Love yourself, know who you are. Don’t care what others think.

because we should never criticize negative behavior, no way. we should just stand in the mirror and say “who cares about negative attitudes toward those people, IM not the one being bad! i love me!”. Im simply offended when i encounter such blatant negative behavior, i’m not really going out of my way by expressing my disappointment on a blog after reading statements like ” I have a small “hate” for Bi women to be quite honest.. they tend to cheat twice as easy, don’t leave an impression as deep as a lesbian does.” or “ I sort of don’t like bisexuals either most of the time because they’re liars and not REALLY into girls, they just do it to fit in, but whatever” if that doesnt offend you, then you must not be very sympathetic toward people who have to deal with these sort of degrading prejudices on a day to day basis.

if i was starting drama id have addressed a lot of specific people (kind of how you did to me… hey shouldnt you be loving yourself right now??)instead of making a general statement about a negative attitude that seems to have been accepted by way too many people of heterosexual and lgbt communities alike

But don’t you see what you’re doing? By saying that this negative attitude is being accepted by people who are heterosexual or simply homosexual you are doing the same exact thing. You are saying that most people are bisexual haters and that’s simply not the case, just like there are a shit ton of heterosexual people and Christians who don’t have anything against homosexuals or bisexuals. By making a very general claim of how bisexuality is so misunderstood by people of heterosexual or homosexual persuasion you’re just making more negativity. Did you know that there are people who think gays are fairy flamboyant little pussies? There are just too many heterosexuals that think that. So all heterosexuals are bad. Listen, all I’m saying is the attitude divides people, not just the LGBT community but the community of the people of the world. It’s medieval in its machinations, it keeps people apart and is the reason for hate amongst all sorts of cultures. Yes people should respect and honor bisexuals because they do exist and they do kick ass. But how do you become an example of how people should behave? You become the epitome of the way you think people should behave. Treat others how you would want to be treated. Too negatives don’t make a positive. I personally like being called a faggot or sissy, but nor do I call them horrible breeding idiots. I simply let them discover that they are misinformed. They best weapon against any argument is proof. I’ll let you take this message as you want.

i never said that? i said it was a prejudice i noticed in both communities, very frequently. since im a lesbian, gay all day, im pretty aware of the attitudes harbored by some members of both communities, and thats why i made this little rant. please find the quote where i said “EVERY ONE DOES THIS U SUK” because im pretty sure i said you should be disappointed in yourself if you do stereotype bisexuals. why do you have such a problem with me having a problem with this form of intolerance?

“I personally like being called a faggot or sissy, but nor do I call them horrible breeding idiots” the fuck happened to your sentence bro?

” I simply let them discover that they are misinformed.” well, flawed-logic-man, clearly you dont or youd be ever so virtuously leaving me alone so i could discover my evil doing on my own. im really not sure why me being upset about such a commonplace stereotype and calling out on it has got you in such a tither. youd think i actually did say “all gay people do this!” HM SINCE IM A GAY AND I DONT WELL LETS SEE… i never said that! youre just looking for an argument at this point. also, im not the kind of person to stick my thumb up my ass and wait around in the face of intolerance. so, no i dont think its appropriate to attack people, im not a saint, but i will definitely point out these behaviors when they come up, and i wont feel bad about it either.